Maryland

I gave this "visitor" the benefit of the doubt since last year--I thought it was a random thing until I noticed the same location pop up in my trackers every month. This person would click through all of the tabs in my site, ignoring the note out front saying that "You have to be one of my contacts to be able to view the contents of my site"--I know this because even if she's not registered with or logged in Multiply, every click of every page she goes to there is recorded. The pictures above are just a few of the visits I have recorded. She even went to my Twitter page which I subsequently changed.


None of my contacts live in Maryland and none of my friends work at a retirement home so my husband and I did some investigating. We found out out who it was by asking a few acquaintances--it was that easy.

Has she ever thought of what other people would say once they find out that she visits the sites (both private and public blogs) of the woman her ex-boyfriend married? What for? She'll just look bitter, envious, and very hung up. I tolerate her visits to this public blog (which title she even Googled), it is displayed for everyone to see after all, but then why does she visit this site when it's already been made private? When will she learn to give up and move on? Makes me wonder how many times she's been through my private blog when it was still open to everyone--she might have turned the tables around, twisted the story to her liking, and ranted on whatever I have written there just to make herself feel good. Anyways, I have no doubt that she will return to try her luck and click the links on my site again. Will she stop when she finds out that she's been caught? If she's smart, she will. But if not, then she's dimwitted.